One of several long-standing traditions that many couples look forward to most is the so-called “Reveal”–that moment the bride and groom see one another for the first time on their wedding day, dressed to nines, and often not until they are standing together at the altar. This tradition is based on superstition, rooted in the days of arranged marriages. Imagine the time lapse between sending wedding invitations and the wedding day–too much risk that he could bail if he didn’t like what he saw! Many still consider it bad luck for the groom to see his bride anytime on the day of the wedding.
Despite the fact the most modern couples today have plenty of time to check each other out well before they send out wedding invitations, many still prefer the ritual anticipation this tradition builds. As a result, couples may be sacrificing an ideal opportunity to have quiet, quality time together with their photographer before the ceremony. Some, however, are thinking anew about having a pre-wedding Reveal, noting the best reasons to do so.
Why Photograph a Pre-Wedding Reveal
If it feels right to you, here are some reasons to be photographed together before your wedding ceremony:
- Gets photos of the two of you together done with less worry about logistics and timing–events have not yet begun to unfold.
- Your make-up and hair and wrinkle-free gown won’t get better than this
- Daylight may provide you with better light if your ceremony and reception are later
- Free up time after your ceremony to enjoy your receiving line and cocktail hour without added pressure
This is not an engagement photo shoot, a wedding announcement or a bridal portrait. This is the real deal. You’ll want to plan carefully with your photographer exactly what kind of shots to capture of the two of you at this special time. Consider getting your individual portraits done and possibly even your wedding party photos done at the same time.
If you decide to sacrifice the superstition instead of the perfect photo opp, you can still plan a special moment beforehand as a way to preserve the idea of a “reveal.” Such a moment is often an emotional experience, and can be enjoyed even more in private without hundreds of onlookers.
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